Home >> Travel Troubles >> Why did American Airlines call me a no-show for a flight it canceled?

Why did American Airlines call me a no-show for a flight it canceled?

Photo of author

Michelle Couch-Friedman

Consumer reporter and ombudsman

How could American Airlines consider a passenger a no-show for a flight it canceled? The answer to that question is, of course, it can’t. Yet that seems to be precisely what happened to Sherri Gleason – and at the worst possible time for the grandmother-to-be.

During a snowstorm, an American Airlines agent informed Gleason that the airline had canceled her upcoming flight. That flight was meant to take Gleason to Dallas, where she would attend her daughter’s baby shower. With no replacement flights available to get her to the event on time, she reluctantly accepted the inevitable.

But soon, Gleason‘s tremendous disappointment at missing her daughter’s special party turned to outrage. First, American Airlines swiftly rejected her refund request for the canceled flight – claiming she’d been a no-show. And when she pressed for further information, the airline accused her of canceling the much-anticipated trip herself.

Now, Gleason is asking our team for help. She wants American Airlines to refund her money for the canceled flight. But the airline continues to stand by its claim that Gleason was a no-show for a flight that operated as scheduled.

So what’s really going on here? Let’s find out.

Flying American Airlines to a special party

In January, Gleason was excitedly planning a trip to attend her daughter’s baby shower in Dallas.

“I found a flight that worked out perfectly,” Gleason recalled. “I didn’t have a lot of free time to travel at that moment, so I booked a short trip on American Airlines.”

The baby shower would be the main event of the trip. Gleason intended to book a more extended stay when her new grandson arrived.

As a former American Airlines employee, I’m well aware of the unpredictable weather in Dallas. But I hoped that the weather would not cause any flight delays or cancellations and that this trip would go off without a hitch.

Unfortunately, the weather would end up causing many problems for Gleason. But ultimately, American Airlines would present the biggest obstacle to Gleason celebrating the baby shower with her family.

A surprise storm and a canceled American Airlines flight … or maybe not.

A few days before Gleason‘s scheduled flight to Dallas, a surprise snowstorm hit that region of the state. Widespread flight delays and cancellations were reported.

“I worried that the weather might cause American Airlines to cancel my flight,” Gleason recalled. “But I didn’t receive any cancellation announcements, so I hoped I was still going.”

On the morning that Gleason intended to fly to Texas, she made a call to American Airlines.

I saw so many flights being canceled that were routed to and through Dallas. But my flight seemed to be still operating. At approx. 5:50pm, I received a call back from American Airlines. The agent was extremely nice and helpful. She advised me that unfortunately, in the 4 hours since I had last checked on my flights, the airline had canceled both the OUTBOUND and RETURN flights on my itinerary.

While I contemplated how disappointed I was at missing my daughter’s baby shower (her first baby), the agent and I discussed my options. Since AA had already canceled nearly 40% of its flights at DFW due to the ice storm, there were limited options from GSP. So I realized that I was going to miss the baby shower. I had not received any notifications from AA that my flight(s) were canceled and I mentioned this to the reservation agent. She said that she could see they (the flights) were canceled in her system. She told me that she would process the refund request for me.

Next, Gleason dialed her daughter’s number to deliver the bad news: she wouldn’t be able to attend the joyous occasion because of the canceled flight.

But early the next day, Gleason would receive startling news.

A surprising message from American Airlines about that canceled flight

The following morning Gleason checked her emails and saw a surprising message from American Airlines.

“I had forgotten that I had signed up for flight alerts,” she recalled. “The alert from American Airlines reminded me of my “on time” flight — the one they told me was canceled!”

Gleason picked up the phone and called American Airlines but found a four-hour wait to speak to an agent.

I decided not to bother waiting to find out what was going on. The agent had already confirmed that she had submitted my refund request. At that point, there was no way that I could have had time to pack and get to the airport even if the flight had been operating. But since the agent told me the flight was canceled, I assumed this alert was probably a computer glitch.

Unfortunately, that appears to have been an incorrect assumption.

American Airlines: “No-show passengers do not receive a refund.”

As a former American Airlines employee of 30 years, Gleason was well aware of the refund rules – if an airline cancels your flight — or changes your schedule significantly, it owes you a refund.

So that’s what made what happened next so surprising to Gleason: American Airlines rejected her refund request.

I received an email that said my refund request was rejected. The agent said my flight hadn’t been canceled – so basically I was a no-show. How can I be a no-show for a flight that the airline told me was canceled? If that flight was operating, I would have been on it! I wanted to go to my daughter’s baby shower.

Now Gleason was more confused than ever and angry. What had gone wrong here?

“I believe an American Airlines agent made a mistake!”

Gleason quickly filed an appeal and reminded American Airlines that its phone agent had informed her that her flights had both been canceled. But within days, a customer service supervisor sent her a rejection confirmation of her refund request.

I sent one more appeal to American Airlines and I reiterated that I didn’t cancel this trip. I asked someone to call me since I thought the airline had not understood the problem, yet. By now, it seemed pretty clear that an American Airlines agent had made a mistake that cost me the opportunity to attend my daughter’s baby shower. But I soon received another email telling me that American Airlines had reviewed my request again and the answer remained the same. Further, this supervisor advised me that supervisors don’t call customers.


As Gleason was trying to figure out what to do next, she began searching the internet. That’s when she came across an article that I had recently written about another American Airlines passenger who had been given inaccurate information from a customer service agent:

And so Gleason decided to submit her request for help to our team.

Was this flight really canceled?

When I went through Gleason‘s paper trail, I could see right away that she had a problem. She had no proof that American Airlines had canceled her flight. So then I checked Flight Aware and that information confirmed that those flights had operated as scheduled.

In response to Gleason‘s appeal for a refund, American Airlines reiterated that it does not provide refunds to no-show passengers or customers who cancel nonrefundable flights.

But why would a grandmother-to-be have booked a flight to take her to her daughter’s baby shower and then been a no-show? I believed that she wanted to be at that baby shower. I also knew from past cases that customer service agents can make mistakes and have been known to give inaccurate information from time to time —  and that those conversations are often recorded.

It was time to send this case over to American Airlines and determine if the airline had recorded the conversation between Gleason and the agent. And if so, did that representative give her the wrong information about those flights?

Asking American Airlines about this no-show mystery

Hi *****,

How are you? Would your team be able to have a look at this American Airlines passenger’s complaint/claim? Sherri Gleason says she had a flight to go to her daughter’s baby shower in Dallas. But there were some broad cancellations due to the weather the day before. She called AA on Feb 3 to see what her options were in case her flight was canceled. She opted to have a callback, and she says that an AA agent called her back several hours later (5:55 pm eastern) and told her that her flight was canceled.

It turns out that wasn’t correct information. Her flight operated as scheduled, but she wasn’t on it because of the information that was conveyed to her in that phone call. Then when she requested a refund for the canceled flight, it was rejected because AA says it didn’t cancel the flight.

Sherri is hoping that American Airlines recorded the call and that your team might hear that the agent gave her incorrect cancellation information.

Thank you! (Michelle to American Airlines)

The good news

Soon came the good news. It appears that phone recordings, as we have seen in past cases, vindicated Gleason. Our American Airlines executive contact confirmed that the airline would provide a full refund.

Hi Michelle,

I received a phone call from American Airlines late yesterday letting me know they were refunding the ticket amount due to the agent’s error when she advised me my flight was canceled when it wasn’t. Thank you!

Sherri to Michelle

And although Gleason did miss the shower, she soon met her healthy baby grandson in person, and that’s the happiest ending for this tale. 😃

What really happens if you’re a no-show for your next flight

Sherri wasn‘t a no-show for her flight. But it’s important for travelers to know what happens in this situation.

It’s best to avoid “no-showing” for any flight, as repercussions can often be avoided or mitigated just by letting the airline know you’ll be missing the flight. Here’s what can happen if an airline brands you as a no-show for your next flight.

  1. You will not be eligible for a refund or future flight credit.
    No-show passengers will not be eligible for a refund or future credit. That is true even if, under normal circumstances, the ticket would have been eligible for a refund or future credit. If you miss your flight and do not call to cancel before the aircraft departs, your ticket will become worthless. Note: Some airlines, like Southwest, require passengers to cancel at least 10 minutes before the scheduled departure.
  2. The airline will cancel all other segments on your itinerary.
    In the United States and in most other areas of the world, if you miss any segment of your trip, your airline will cancel the rest of the itinerary immediately. If you know you’re going to miss the outgoing portion of your flight, it’s imperative not to be a no-show if you want to try to protect the rest of the ticket. Note that some airlines may allow you to use the rest of your ticket if you get permission before the flight departs. Remember, if you receive a promise like this that deviates from the airline’s written policy, you must get that promise in writing. If you don’t, you’ll have no way to prove that the offer happened, and you risk losing the value of your ticket.
  3. You might end up banished from the airline.
    If the airline believes that you might be trying to game the system by purchasing “hidden city” tickets (also called skiplagging), you could end up on the carrier’s blacklist. Hidden city tickets are itineraries that crafty travelers will buy that contain legs on the journey that the passenger has no intention of taking. For instance, the traveler wants to go from New York to Kansas City, but a ticket from New York to Dallas via Kansas City is cheaper. The schemer will buy the connecting flight with every intention of being a no-show on the portion from Kansas City to Dallas flight. The airlines are onto these hacks, and if you are identified as someone who is a no-show because of a hidden city scheme, you risk losing the entire cost of the ticket, and you might even end up banned from the airline. Unless that’s an outcome you’re willing to risk, you should definitely avoid this hack. (Michelle Couch-Friedman, Consumer Rescue).
Photo of author

Michelle Couch-Friedman

Michelle Couch-Friedman is the founder and CEO of Consumer Rescue. She is a consumer advocate, ombudsman columnist, mediator, writer, and licensed psychotherapist. Michelle is a public speaker, and her expert guidance has been cited in MarketWatch, Consumer Reports, Travel & Leisure, The Wall Street Journal, Newsweek, Popular Science, CNN, CNBC, Boston Globe, CBS News, National Geographic, Travel Weekly, Reader's Digest and more. You might even catch Michelle on TV reporting on a situation. :) Michelle is also the travel ombudsman columnist for The Points Guy and is the former executive director of the nonprofit Elliott Advocacy. During her six years in that position, she resolved thousands of cases for troubled travelers and other consumers. You can read hundreds of 5-star reviews Michelle earned during her service to the nonprofit since 2016 here on Great Nonprofits. She is also a member of the Society of American Travel Writers. Today, she continues to spend as much time as possible fiercely defending consumers and traveling the world with her family. Contact her at Michelle Couch-Friedman or on Linkedin, Twitter or Facebook.
Notify of
Newest Most Voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments

It’s hard to get proof on a phone call, unless you record it, or they send you a confirmation email. Nice work! (ps, it’s great to see you back Michelle!)


Three cheers, Michelle! It’s so important today to use technology for situations like this. It saddens me to realize that customer service people are so often incompetent … and the airlines always blame the pax. I rely only on the computer these days. Pulling a screen shot for a situation like this avoids all the sturm & drang.

Michelle Couch-Friedman

Thanks, Judy 🙂


A familiar story (in fact, it might have been mine cited by Ms. Gleason). A couple of years ago, American made a horrendous change to my flight schedule, one that made it almost impossible to make a connecting flight between two different airports. I spoke with two different AA agents on separate days who both confirmed I was entitled to a full refund if I cancelled due to the changes. So I did, only to find the airline refused my refund request totaling more than $8,000. They obstinately denied I was entitled to refund, despite what the two agents had assured me. I thought all hope was lost until I contacted Michelle at Consumer Rescue. She promptly followed up with her contacts at American, pointing out to them, that, by law, I was entitled to a full refund. AA admitted they were wrong and gave me my $8,000+ back. Michelle is a godsend, who knows exactly what to do and gets it done. She’s a beacon of light in the dark, onerous world of consumer travel.

Michelle Couch-Friedman

Aw, thank you, Michael. ❤️ It really is our pleasure to come to the rescue of the consumers who contact us! I’m happy you found us!


Michelle saves the day again! More proof, not all superheroes wear capes! (Unless Michell wears one under her normal clothing!) *LOL*

Michelle Couch-Friedman

Thanks, Dave :). (PS. I do not, lol)

Would love your thoughts, please comment.x