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Vrbo doesn’t allow shared space vacation rentals. So why won’t this host leave?

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Michelle Couch-Friedman

Consumer reporter and ombudsman

Franklin Wu had a most unusual experience with Vrbo after he prepaid $9,000 for a four-month apartment rental in Switzerland. Although Vrbo doesn’t allow shared vacation rentals, suddenly, in the middle of the night, the host made it clear she wasn’t leaving. So he did.

But then Vrbo gave him another shock —  the host could keep all his money.

What is going on here?

This tale is a strange one, to be sure. Franklin did nothing wrong, and yet he almost lost thousands of dollars in this debacle — almost.

The beginning of this bizarre vacation rental problem

Franklin’s weird vacation rental fiasco began when he went looking for a four-month rental in Lucerne. Wu would be traveling on a work visa as part of his employment. His wife and his cats would be coming along too. They needed an apartment that would accommodate them all.

The couple browsed the listings on Vrbo until they found one that would be available for their entire stay.

Soon Franklin found an apartment that seemed perfect — a well-located, two-bedroom unit with availability from October to February. And it was pet-friendly. He contacted the owner through the Vrbo message center.

“Hello! I’m writing to confirm if the long-term dates specified are acceptable to you,” Franklin wrote. “And we will be bringing our two cats.”

The host, Monica, quickly responded with pleasantries and a confirmation of availability.

“The property is available from Oct. 21 – Feb. 28, and I’d like to invite you to stay!” Monica wrote. “You are pre-approved to book, so you will automatically be confirmed if you make a payment.”

Monica also provided the address of the apartment so that Franklin and his wife could verify its location. And then Franklin prepaid around $9,000 for his family’s entire stay.

But there was one last wrinkle to iron out of their plans.

Proof of a rental lease for the Swiss migration office

Franklin’s wife needed some additional documentation for the Swiss migration office. So Wu wrote back to Monica to ask for written proof that she approved of his wife in the apartment.

My company is talking to the migration office for me, so I’m getting this second-hand. Here’s what they said I need:

1. Copy of lease contract (place where you will be living here in Switzerland)
2. Written confirmation of the landlord that they are fine that you have your wife living with you.

I can provide the Vrbo receipt as a form of lease contract. Maybe just a short statement saying that you know and approve my wife, Laura, to also be residing with me in the apartment.

Monica agreed to provide a landlord statement. But, in hindsight, what she sent Franklin was the first clue of the rental fiasco to come. And this document would later come back to haunt Franklin. More on that shortly.

Franklin completed the visa application for his wife, and the migration office approved it. Soon the couple and their cats would be on their way to their adventure in Switzerland.

Vrbo shared space rentals aren’t allowed. So what’s going on here?

A few days before Franklin and his clan arrived in Lucerne he emailed Monica. He asked how they would check in.

“Hello Monica, since we are arriving soon, what should we expect for checking in to the apartment?” Franklin asked. “We expect to be in Lucerne around 15:30. Thanks!”

Monica answered Franklin with helpful information about how to navigate her neighborhood. She said that she had to work so she would leave a key in an envelope for the couple.

Several days later Franklin and his wife arrived at the apartment, and all seemed fine. He texted Monica to confirm their arrival and to get the Wi-Fi code.

Again, Monica was helpful and friendly. She told Franklin that she was currently in London. But Franklin thought it was odd when she ended with this text:

“Enjoy and I’ll see you tomorrow night.”

Monica (The Vrbo host)

Franklin wondered why they would see her the next night. But he assumed she just wanted to meet them and acquaint them with the apartment.

What is this Vrbo host doing in this apartment at 1 a.m?

He was wrong.

The next day Monica texted the couple to tell them she wouldn’t be there until late in the evening. Now Franklin says it started to become clear that they may have somehow booked a shared space rental on Vrbo.

It was getting quite late. And now it was becoming more and more likely that we are in a shared space rental since a host check-in doesn’t typically occur past 11 p.m. We went to bed. Then we hear her arrive at approximately 1 in the morning. She left bright and early, well before we even woke up.


The couple was thoroughly confused as to how they ended up in this predicament. Franklin went back to the original Vrbo listing — there was no mention of this being a shared space rental.

Having no desire to spend four months living with a stranger — even a friendly one — Franklin immediately contacted Vrbo.

Asking Vrbo to refund this shared space rental

When Franklin initially contacted Vrbo to report his surprise at being in a shared space rental, a representative was sympathetic. Franklin explains:

Vrbo stated that renting shared spaces was strictly not allowed on their site, and therefore the host was in violation of Vrbo’s terms and conditions. Vrbo stated we were entitled to a full refund. Lastly, Vrbo stated that they would provide a hotel room for us to stay in while we figured out a rebooking.


Relieved that it appeared their $9,000 was not in jeopardy, the couple accepted relocation to a hotel. As they were preparing to leave, the host returned.

Franklin said that his wife calmly explained all that the Vrbo representative had told them. She told Monica that at no time did they expect to be in a shared space rental — and that Vrbo doesn’t allow such arrangements. Franklin’s wife told Monica that the couple expected a refund — Monica immediately refused. Franklin says the confused host mentioned something about the listing coming from Airbnb — not Vrbo.

Getting nowhere with Monica, the couple gathered their things and their cats and left.

Vrbo: “Don’t worry. We’ve got your back.”

Once they arrived at the hotel, Franklin received an email from Vrbo. That message alerted him that the owner had canceled their stay. The email began with, “Don’t worry. We’ve got your back.”

It went on to describe the protections that renters have when a host cancels a property. The protections of the Book with Confidence Guarantee are also detailed on the Vrbo site.

As per the email, Franklin and his wife should visit the VRBO website and find a suitable, replacement apartment. Vrbo would cover the cost of their hotel until they could move to a new location.

So, the duo set about finding a new apartment — pleased that this little rental nightmare seemed to be over.

In reality, this rental nightmare was only just getting started.

If you agree to a Vrbo shared rental, then the company says it won’t help.

The next day, Franklin woke to an email from “Carrie,” a first-name-only Vrbo representative. In that correspondence, Carrie accused Franklin of “breach of contract.” She told him that her team had reviewed the case and spoken to the host. Her resolution team had determined that Franklin knew that he was renting a shared space rental.

Here’s an excerpt from Carrie’s explanation as to why Franklin did not qualify for a refund:

Vrbo was notified that contact to the owner was made off platform requesting specific information. An affidavit was signed and sent to you per your request and acknowledgment and acceptance was made by you. There was an agreement made between the owner and yourself about the living accommodations which you accepted these terms. Since you have requested to leave the home and not stay, you are breaking that contract which voids out eligibility for our Book With Confidence and rebooking assistance.

Carrie (Vrbo’s customer service representative)

Carrie’s letter went on to clarify that Vrbo would offer no further assistance to the couple and would provide no refund. Carrie did suggest, though, that the couple could book a new property — and pay for it themselves.

Franklin was stunned. He had asked for the referenced affidavit because the Swiss migration office required it in order to approve his wife’s visa. It had nothing to do with a shared space rental. His wife’s application needed to include her name on a lease or a notice from a landlord that she was part of the lease.

And now he was thoroughly confused. What was Carrie talking about?

Not knowing what else to do, Franklin submitted a desperate plea for help to our advocacy team.

No, Vrbo does not allow shared space rentals

When I read through Franklin’s complaint, I wondered what had gone wrong here. Vrbo does not permit shared space rentals. You can easily find this information on the Vrbo website.

Vrbo does not allow shared space rentals. So why did this host think she could stay with his family?
Proof that Vrbo forbids shared space rentals. So this vacation rental problem is particularly odd.

So why did this host think it was acceptable to remain inside the apartment with her guests? And why was Vrbo allowing her to keep the couple’s $9,000?

They never asked Vrbo for a shared space vacation rental

Franklin was never looking for a shared space rental. He was merely looking for a place for his family to stay during his time in Switzerland. He had no motivation to share a property with a stranger. So this entire turn of events bewildered him — especially Vrbo’s sudden change of attitude toward his family’s plight.

“The property owner had provided us a little affidavit for residence purposes stating that she was aware that we’d be living ‘with me,’” Franklin told me. “Vrbo claims that was enough for us to have known that it was a shared space rental. I thought it was just a language difference. But now my $9,000 is on the line. Can you help us?”

I took a look at the affidavit. Monica does say that the couple will be living “with me.” Although the wording was a little strange, I didn’t think that alone should be used to make a $9,000 decision. Carrie must have had additional proof that Wu knew this was a shared space rental.

Franklin told me that Vrbo offered nothing else as proof that he was a willing participant in this shared space rental.

An end to this ridiculous vacation rental problem and a $9,000 refund!

Knowing that Vrbo forbids shared space rentals, I contacted their executive resolution team to find out what went wrong here. That team is always helpful and willing to take a closer look at the cases that land in our helpline. (See: I wasted $2,000 on a vacation rental that doesn’t exist.)

The executive Vrbo team conducted a thorough investigation of Franklin’s case. About a week later came the good news.

Our executive contact confirmed that Vrbo does not allow hosts to offer shared space rentals. As a result of this investigation, Vrbo removed Monica’s listing, agreed to refund Franklin’s $9,000 and help rehouse the couple. Additionally, Vrbo paid the difference between the new rental and the surprise shared space rental.

Franklin is thrilled with this positive resolution. He’s happy that this strange experience is truly over. In the end, he and his wife located an alternative property.  They happily settled in with their cats as their only additional roommates. And that’s just the way they always wanted it.

What can you do if your Vrbo vacation rental host wants to share space with you?

Some vacation rental companies, like Airbnb (See: Is this the worst Airbnb experience ever?), do allow shared space vacation rentals. Of course, the host must make it clear in the listing that the property will be shared (See: Did this Airbnb host forget to mention something really important?). But Vrbo does not allow this type of rental — ever. In this case, there were no indicators that the host intended to live with Franklin and his family before they showed up. But it was quite clear soon after they arrived that she did. If you discover the owner of a vacation rental unexpectedly intends to be roomies with you, here’s what to do.

  • Talk to the host.
    No one should be opening the front door of your vacation rental in the middle of the night by surprise — not even the owner of the property. If you suddenly discover that your Vrbo host is crossing boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed, don’t be shy. Ask the host what they’re doing and point out that you’ve rented the entire property as per the Vrbo regulations.
  • Contact the Vrbo resolution center.
    If the host won’t leave and makes it clear they intend to stay, contact the Vrbo resolution center immediately. This is critical. Our team often receives requests for help from Vrbo guests who say they were unaware of how to reach Vrbo during their rental. But Vrbo requires the guest to alert the company of any problems with their vacation rental within 24 hours. If that doesn’t happen, it’s rare that Vrbo will side with the guest later. Travelers can sign into their account on a computer or download the Vrbo app and reach representatives at any time of the day through the chat/message feature. Guests should also communicate with the host through this feature as it provides a great “paper trail” to document all efforts to resolve the problem. You may need that documentation later if refund problems persist.
  • Document your request and then leave.
    After you’ve documented your requests for the owner to vacate the property, you’ll likely need to leave. Make sure to ask Vrbo to provide you with alternative accommodations. If their team is not able to offer immediate rehousing, Vrbo will often suggest the customer find their own replacement. If you follow this route, make sure to keep all your receipts and only book a property that is of similar cost. Now is not the time to book yourself into The Ritz with the idea Vrbo will pay for it. That won’t happen.
  • Escalate your request through the executive contacts.
    If, as was the case here, Vrbo initially rejects your refund request, you’re going to need to escalate your complaint.  It’s important to remember that, unfortunately, a significant portion of customer service today is outsourced to AI chatbots and poorly trained workers who are ill-equipped to actually help the consumer. But by using all the tips in my article about getting excellent customer service, you can escalate your case to someone who can help you within the company.
  • Contact the Consumer Rescue team.
    And, of course, if all else fails and you know you’re in the right, send your request for help directly to the Consumer Rescue team. We’re always here — 365 days a year ready to help! (Michelle Couch-Friedman, Consumer Rescue)

*Looking for more Vrbo fiasco stories? Here’s a doozy: How to easily lose $500 in a vacation rental scam? Pay with Zelle

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Michelle Couch-Friedman

Michelle Couch-Friedman is the founder and CEO of Consumer Rescue. She is a consumer advocate, ombudsman columnist, mediator, writer, and licensed psychotherapist. Michelle is a public speaker, and her expert guidance has been cited in MarketWatch, Consumer Reports, Travel & Leisure, The Wall Street Journal, Newsweek, Popular Science, CNN, CNBC, Boston Globe, CBS News, National Geographic, Travel Weekly, Reader's Digest and more. You might even catch Michelle on TV reporting on a situation. :) Michelle is also the travel ombudsman columnist for The Points Guy and is the former executive director of the nonprofit Elliott Advocacy. During her six years in that position, she resolved thousands of cases for troubled travelers and other consumers. You can read hundreds of 5-star reviews Michelle earned during her service to the nonprofit since 2016 here on Great Nonprofits. She is also a member of the Society of American Travel Writers. Today, she continues to spend as much time as possible fiercely defending consumers and traveling the world with her family. Contact her at Michelle Couch-Friedman or on Linkedin, Twitter or Facebook.